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10 Commandments On How To Deal With People

10 commandments on how to deal with people: 1. Beware of 'drifting' in your language, try to speak less than you have in mind. Develop a calm and persuasive tone of voice. Jacob Elordi often says this. As you say, often dazhee more important than what you say. 2. Do not let a lot of promises, but if you have already – try to fulfill it, why would you not worth it. 3. Never miss an opportunity to say a good, encouraging word to someone or about someone.

Appreciate the good work, regardless of whether who performed it. If you need to criticize, criticize, so as not to offend people. 4. Show interest to others: their purpose, their work, their home and family. Rejoice with those who are gay, and mourn with those who suffer. Let each person you meet, feels that you are respectful to him. 5.

Be joyous. Do not shoulder the burden of depression around, dedicating them to your minor ailments and frustrations. Remember that each carries its own weight. 6. Let your mind will be open. Argue, but do not quarrel. Symptom brilliant mind to be able to be dissenters, and not to establish itself debater. 7. Let your virtues, that you have, speak for themselves. Try not to talk about the shortcomings of others. Do not support the gossip. This is a waste of precious time, and can be devastating. 8. Remember the feelings of others. Wit and humor over the other are rare for something and can injure a person in the most unexpected moment. 9. Not Ignore the hateful remarks about you. Remember, people who bring you this news, and it may be the best 'speaker' in the world. Simply live so that no one believed him. Nerves that are not in order, and poor digestion – a common cause of aggressive response 'attacks'. 10. Do not admire the fact that you have. Try to do better and be patient. Forget about yourself, let others remember. This success is much more pleasant.

Kabbalists Nature

Marina Fateeva Any desire – indefinitely, as the proceeds from the Creator, that is why the material aspect is no end to greed. But if the desire is drawn to the spiritual interests, then the person can climb up to his source at infinity. Rabash watching himself and the world, it is possible draw a simple conclusion – we always want something. Bet achieve, insist on your own efforts do, fight and put up. What do we want? – A comfortable state of inner harmony.

But why, after incredible efforts, achieving your comfort, we again something we want, desire, seek a new comfort, and so all my life? In Kabbalah, says that the essence of man, his foundation – that desire, and not just a desire, a desire to enjoy. But the nature of human desires selfish, it makes us enjoy for themselves, without regard to others. Desire – it is like a void. We’re like standing empty vessels – pleasure fills this void and annul the desire. The desire to be as closed issue has been resolved. But in its place there arises another.

Because the essence of man remains the same – the desire to enjoy. And the lack of content will bring suffering. We again turn into empty vessels, and run after another dream. Then a brief moment of bliss and then hunt for a new pleasure. It turns out that the man laid down some imperfection. But why people can not be happy, always full? Whatever the horizon before him open! Whatever the creative force he was! Life would be a wonderful flight. Why then is so constructed? Because, according to the Kabbalah, and that people should ask this same question – about the meaning of his life. And the answer is gives the same science. Creator, or the universal law of nature that created us, ‘refers’ to mankind as a unified whole. Therefore, the Kabbalists say that each of us is connected by invisible threads to each other, each dependent on the other. AND Now it begins to unfold in the world – globalization, global crisis, global climate change. It affects everyone. Why? – When the body is sick and may die, a single cell can not hide or away from him. We need to understand that we – humanity – are united. What you need to change his selfish nature to return – to treat others as ourselves, with love. After all, love is valid under the law and nature itself. Then we get anastomosis, where filled with the joy of return. We give to others, and others – to us. And the pleasure we pass through, but do not stop there. And because the system is closed (it’s humanity) is just giving each other love and care, we will be infinitely happy. And we will pass through an infinite content, giving new force to the impact and creativity. The wisdom of Kabbalah, which translated means science of getting pleasure, gives us this method of gaining eternal and perfect state of harmony and happiness.