Sviatoslav Letsko
I guess everyone has a number of needs, without which happiness is impossible to feel. Someone needs freedom to move, someone safety or permanent adrenaline. But each of us to be happy we need two thing: be yourself and find your soul mate, which in this space-time becomes part of you. It’s funny how couples are trying to change each other, to reshape their entire essence and nature. Trying to adjust the rights for themselves, to fit your needs.
“Do not want to change? So, you’re hurting me, go away. ” But you can not change myself and be happy with. Be yourself, be in harmony with their choices, their lives and their inner world – it sense, the magnificence of which it is impossible to convey in words. However, if forgetting the importance of this tale of unity, we are constantly trying something out of each other to fashion. But it’s actually very simple. Relationship will be just magic, if you can be yourself and still be together.
This does not mean that the chosen one must be from the same field of berry that you do. Just her beliefs, lifestyle, world view, its activities must not conflict with your needs, your vision of life together. If the same right for your pair, you will find a wonderful life without the merciless attempts to convert each other. This does not mean that you are destined to leave due to the fact that in its essence close the tube with toothpaste, and your – keep it open. If this is for you is not so important, you will find a compromise. But if that tube is hidden Your way, your happiness, your inspiration and self-fulfillment, the joy in this joint stay you will not find.